I thrive helping people navigate the messier sides of life: trauma, identity loss, people pleasing, postpartum overwhelm, parenting, fertility heartbreak, grief, and the quiet “who even am I anymore?” spiral that can come with being human (especially a human with a uterus, a past, or a tiny person depending on you).
You don’t need to have it all figured out to start.
You don’t even have to wear real pants to your session. (I probably won’t be either.)
What you do need is a space where you feel safe, supported, and like your healing doesn’t have to come with judgment or a pile of homework that somehow makes you feel worse.
That’s what I offer—through down-to-earth therapy, focused EMDR intensives, and thoughtful tools to help you reconnect with yourself.
Therapist. Mom. Human. Trauma-untangler. Identity-refinder
I'm Bobbi
you’ve landed here, chances are you’re tired—not just “I need a nap” tired, but soul-tired.
You’ve spent years being the strong one. The reliable one. The one who gets it all done, holds it all together, and makes sure everyone else is okay… even when you’re not.
Maybe you’re navigating trauma, postpartum changes, fertility struggles, or you’ve slowly lost sight of yourself under the weight of perfectionism and people-pleasing.
Either way, you’re ready for something different.
And you don’t have to figure it out alone anymore.
You're not too much,
you're carrying a lot.
You don’t have to have it all figured out before reaching out.
If something in here resonated with you, that’s a good place to start.
I blend traditional talk therapy with EMDR and trauma-informed practices to help you:
- Process the past without having to relive it
- Reclaim your identity beyond roles (hello, parenthood, family responsibilities, fertility, and work-life chaos)
- Feel more grounded and empowered—in your nervous system and your life
- Actually like yourself again—not just in a "toxic positivity" way, but in a deeper, more embodied way
You can show up raw, unsure, messy, tearful, sarcastic, swearing, tired—all of it is welcome.
You don’t have to shrink yourself or prove your worth to be here.
Over a decade experience using EMDR in clinical practice
Bachelor of Social Work, Utah State University
Master of Social Work, State University of New York at Buffalo
Trained in EMDR and trauma-informed care
Fully licensed in Oklahoma, Michigan, and Idaho
Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)
I’m a mom of three boys, a lover of creative projects, and someone who understands how easy it is to slip into survival mode and call it “fine.”
I value honesty, depth, and being real in the room. That means we can hold hard things—and also have moments of lightness, humor, and relief along the way.
You won’t be shamed for how you cope.
You won’t be pushed before you’re ready.
And I won’t make you journal every feeling... unless you actually like journaling.
My job isn’t to fix you—it’s to walk alongside you while you remember: you were never broken to begin with.
I care a lot about creating a space where you don’t have to filter yourself or perform.
I rarely show up to a therapy session with fewer than two drinks. Usually caffeine and water. Sometimes chaos.
I believe healing can be deep and we’re allowed to laugh sometimes. Both can exist.
I will absolutely normalize your overthinking… and then gently call you out on it.
I love reading and a good creative project—crafting, designing, or making something just for the fun of it.
I’m a mom of three boys, which means my life is equal parts chaos, snacks, and trying to drink my coffee while it’s still warm.
